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Why are all the sluts with big guts considered to be beautiful? why is it that all the girls in high school, that smoke/do drugs/drink, have somewhat large stomachs, wear too much makeup, wear clothes that are too tight, really usually arent very pretty, act fake, and are total sluts, why are they considered beautiful | | They arent. i have wondered this before also but really most guys dont want to stay with girls like that. they just want to hit it and run and they know they can with girls like that. i have a lot of guy friends and they usually say they would like to get with those girls not because they are the most attractive, but cuz they can get some. Girls like that are usually lacking in confidence so they have to put up a front and give it up to guys in order to get into a relationship at all.. | How can high school change someone who was once innocent into something so ugly? The story is pretty long, so if you don't want to read it, here's the summary:
A very innocent girl and I were best friends at the start of high school, and by the end of the year, she started doing drugs, drinking, etc. and we became enemies.
The whole story:
At the beginning of my freshman year, both me and my neighbor were new to the school. We became best friends the summer before, and entered high school as firm believers in not being a slut, doing drugs, or getting drunk. We looked out for each other and backed each other up no matter what.
A month into school we were invited to sit with the moderately popular guys, who, despite their position on the social ladder, held the same values as us. However, towards December, our group was changing, like smoking pot on the weekend and having sex. By this time I noticed that my friend was slipping a little, and I told her that I was concerned. She then made me promise that I would keep her straight, and she'd do the same for me.
Well, about a month later, I found out that one of the girls was planning to drop me from the group, and that my friend had agreed. My friend and I ended up getting into a huge fight about it. The next day she confessed that she was just afraid of having to choose between me and the other girl, and that she didn't want to give up her popularity. I convinced her that having a friend who actually cares is a lot more important that being popular, and we made up.
After that she started spiraling out of control. Whenever I tried to confront her about it, she'd just scream or cuss at me. The rest of the time she was constantly backstabbing me, and both she and most of the group still didn't want me there, so I eventually gave up and left both the group and her.
Now she's just obsessed with being popular, gets high all the time, drunk on the weekends, sneaks out at night, got suspended once, has had sex, hooks up all the time, doesn't care about school, and makes up rumors about me whenever she gets the chance.
How can one year of high school corrupt someone so severly? And please don't say "birds of a feather flock together". I stayed with this group for almost the entire year and stayed as clean as when I had started.
And this wasn't originally part of the question, but was I wrong to leave her? Would she have maybe have turned around if I hadn't given up on her? | | You should be so proud of yourself and your choices. You have done absolutely nothing wrong to anyone. You cannot change your friend no matter how hard you try and now it is time to move on and find some new friends who have the same morals and values as you do. They probably won't be the most popular guys, but who cares. those popular guys are going to burn out so quickly and if you stick with your school work you will have a bright future ahead of you. High school can be so lonely at times but none of that will matter once you are out of there. Stay strong and true to yourself. Get support from your family, they must be so proud of you. | I feel like my life is getting effed up? a year ago, i was this innocent and goody two shoes girl going into ninth grade. within one year, i changed so much and now i feel like i'm becoming a bad person.
i have two groups of friends: my bad group of friends and the good group.
my bad group of friends are really fun to be with and ive been friends with them longer. we've been through a lot of stuff together and ive been best friends with a girl in the group for two years. we drink, party, hang out with guys who are pot heads and college guys and most of the older guys in my high school cause most of the seniors and juniors party and drink a lot. we smoke cigs but i've stopped smoking cause i didn't want to get addicted.
when i was with them, i tried pot, made out with two guys at a dance, we've gone to parties and gotten wasted and made out with college aged guys.
my other group of friends, the good guys, hate drinking, smoking, drugs, sluts, and are straightedge. they hate guys who drink or smoke or any of that stuff.
i usually kept the two groups separate and id act like a straightedge guy when i was with the good guys because i didn't want them to hate me. lately, ive been blending everything together. like i sexted a guy that was kinda friends with the good group and they know about what happened at the dance and they think ive only gotten drunk once.
last night, my two best friends from the good group told me i dress like a slut and a hooker. but i don't even mean to! i don't wear shorts that make my butt hang out, i dint wear plunging necklines... usually in the summer i wear shorts (that are on the shorter side but still cover my butt) and tanks tops or a cami.
i picked up cursing from the bad group and when im with the good group its just come out and ill just say a bunch of curses.
like i don't want to be like this. i don't want to be thought of as a slutty bad girl.
how can i fix everything and make myself back into a better person? | This is very similar to what happend to me.
I have to say it, and this may sound harsh, but the drinking HAS to stop. Forget about good group/bad group whatever. It is your body and your life that you are messing up. Alcohol is very innapropriate at your age. Also, the pot and the smoking is "effing" your life up too, more than you can imagine.
Ask yourself, why am I friends with these people (for both groups) if the "good group" is pointing things out to you (calling you a slut, per se) be honest with yourself. Sexting is also very inappropriate. It can be spread all over the internet.
Don't try to impress ANYONE. whether it be either group, you need to be yourself.
Please, please, please go to this website www.abovetheinfluence.com/heatmap… and read. It will give you ideas on how to be strong and not give in to peer pressure, which is what this situation is.
You can dress modestly without sacraficing beauty!
BE STRONG.
Trust me, I've been through this situation, you just have to be yourself. | How do i forgive him? I'll try and make this short.
I started dating my boyfriend in April, we had been going out for eight months and it was pretty bad, him flirting with other girls and doing messed up things and we'd fight constantly. Out of no where he wanted to take a break.
While we were on this break, he started getting in a lot of trouble, doing anything to distract himself from me. Drinking, Drugs, and Sluts - bluntly said.
He started having these feelings for this girl, and apparently they started dating (I'm still not totally sure what exactly there relationship status was) He was telling me he never asked her to be his girlfriend, i, thinking they were just a "thing" continue to hook up with him.
One more during gym class he was kissing, hugging and flirting with me.
Later that day, i found that he kissed the other girl, apparently the one and only time (still not sure if i believe that) i flipped out at both him and her, telling her that karma was a *****.
Seeking revenge, i continue to hook up with him. Finally she found absolutely everything out and broke up with him.
(P.S - the whole time he acted like we were still together, all the lovey dovey ****. Saying he wanted to get rid of her but didn't want to hurt her cause she was young and innocent so he was trying to get her to leave him and that'd we would one day be back together)
So on March 5th he asked me back out again, realizing he really didn't want to be without me. I said yes and the relationship is absolutely amazing, you'd think he were a whole different guy.
One problem...
I can't get it out of my head that he kissed her and that he would do something like that to someone he "loves"
I can't forgive it or forget it and i know i'll never be able to forget it but i at least want to forgive it. However, I'm not a forgiving person and i don't know how to forgive him but i really want to, so i can make this relationship work.
How do I forgive him? | I'll try and make this short (lol, im only teasing ! )
Chances are (and i dont mean to be a killjoy) If he did it once, he will probably do it again.
However, the best way to forgive is to do just that. Forgive. Accept the fact that you two are in a relationship NOW. It's a fresh start, and a new beginning.
I'm assuming you guys are teenagers, and thats what makes it the problem. Most of the time, teenage guys dont know what they want. If you have already went out with him for 8 months, and it was pretty bad, what makes you think the next time around is gonna be any better? He's still growing up.
It might be good now, but usually all relationships are always like heaven in the first couple of months. However, 8 months is a pretty long time to determine what kind of person and relationship you guys are capable of having, and based on that info, i personally would NOT have taken him back.
"One problem...
I can't get it out of my head that he kissed her and that he would do something like that to someone he loves" I dont feel that you deserve to be having these types of worries. You're a teenager, you're young! Theres PLENTY of other fish in the sea. ( I know, i HATED hearing that too. But in all seriousness, it is very true.) After all this is only high school (i think?) do you really think he's gunna stay with you throughtout the rest of his teen years, college, etc.?
You sound like a nice girl, and you deserve a nice guy. I'm not saying teenage relationships are incapable of surviving (I met my boyfriend when i was 15, and we've been together for 4 years now! and he's the most amazing person i have ever met) because that's not true. The reality is, is that there is a very small percentage of teenage guys that are even ready to commit to a relationship 100%. Hormones screw everything up. | Help me to forgive him? I'll try and make this short.
I started dating my boyfriend in April, we had been going out for eight months and it was pretty bad, him flirting with other girls and doing messed up things and we'd fight constantly. Out of no where he wanted to take a break.
While we were on this break, he started getting in a lot of trouble, doing anything to distract himself from me. Drinking, Drugs, and Sluts - bluntly said.
He started having these feelings for this girl, and apparently they started dating (I'm still not totally sure what exactly there relationship status was) He was telling me he never asked her to be his girlfriend, i, thinking they were just a "thing" continue to hook up with him.
One more during gym class he was kissing, hugging and flirting with me.
Later that day, i found that he kissed the other girl, apparently the one and only time (still not sure if i believe that) i flipped out at both him and her, telling her that karma was a *****.
Seeking revenge, i continue to hook up with him. Finally she found absolutely everything out and broke up with him.
(P.S - the whole time he acted like we were still together, all the lovey dovey ****. Saying he wanted to get rid of her but didn't want to hurt her cause she was young and innocent so he was trying to get her to leave him and that'd we would one day be back together)
So on March 5th he asked me back out again, realizing he really didn't want to be without me. I said yes and the relationship is absolutely amazing, you'd think he were a whole different guy.
One problem...
I can't get it out of my head that he kissed her and that he would do something like that to someone he "loves"
I can't forgive it or forget it and i know i'll never be able to forget it but i at least want to forgive it. However, I'm not a forgiving person and i don't know how to forgive him but i really want to, so i can make this relationship work.
How do I forgive him? | | I think there's fear in saying "I forgive you" ... like it means it's forgotten, or you're a sucker for punishment. What it actually means is that you can move past this because you believe that he gets the gravity of his mistake. Is he really taking responsibility for the breach in trust or is he just saying sorry to deflect your anger? Regardless what he says, the real way to believe him is thru his actions. If he is acting like a player then he's not really committed to you so let him go. | Is there any rap, not about how "oppressed" black people are, drugs, alcohol, or sluts? I like the beats and flow of rap, but i get sick of hearing the negitivity. It seems the mainstreem rap and hip hop is all about getting drunk, having promiscuous sex, doing drugs, selling drugs, violence, or any other criminal act. I usta party a lot but i have grown up and matured, and i am no longer interested in music that displays this kinda of arrogance. | There's a lot of good hip hop thats not about that BS. I'm 34 so I know what you mean about outgrowing that mentality most hip hop seems to glorify.
Brother Ali-www.youtube.com/watch?v=jxUQ07NXB…
Ahnom-www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7SovWn_y…
Crown City Rockers-www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXtJRv36t…
Surreal-www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCTht9Ql9…
Pigeon John-www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq5EOejrQ…
J-Live-www.youtube.com/watch?v=4XIOs2kd8…
Ugly Duckling-www.youtube.com/watch?v=deQxgSnzu…
PackFM-www.youtube.com/watch?v=5wmK1MdaT…
Blackalicious-www.youtube.com/watch?v=MvPnM2Q1n…
El da Sensei-www.youtube.com/watch?v=guO5lwCPT…
just a few of the dope artists that aren't on that negativity tip | This hoe keeps flirting with my boyfriend? Okay so her name is brooke.. She is total slut, she drinks, drugs, smokes, and does things with guys.. Well she likes my boyfriend and of course shes a slut shes not gonna respect that he has a girlfriend.. She is constantly flirting with him and in gym when they do shirts vs. skins(Im not in the same gym class so i cant do anything about it), shes like "Take it off jake, take it off" like all sexual, well my boyfriend doesnt do anything except say ok and walk away.. I wish he would like tell her to knock it off, HE HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HER WHATSOEVER, she also has a boyfriend and of course likes 10 more guys.. WHat do I do?!?!?! Its really bothering me(I am the one known to kick a girls *** when i need to and tell girls off, im great in arguments with comebacks) Advice? >:| | | Tell your boyfriend to either do something about it before you do and be like if you truely want to be with me and me only then you will tell her to back the **** up!!!! | Girl keeps flirting with my boyfriend? Okay so her name is brooke.. She is total slut, she drinks, drugs, smokes, and does things with guys.. Well she likes my boyfriend and of course shes a slut shes not gonna respect that he has a girlfriend.. She is constantly flirting with him and in gym when they do shirts vs. skins(Im not in the same gym class so i cant do anything about it), shes like "Take it off jake, take it off" like all sexual, well my boyfriend doesnt do anything except say ok and walk away.. I wish he would like tell her to knock it off, HE HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HER WHATSOEVER, she also has a boyfriend and of course likes 10 more guys.. WHat do I do?!?!?! Its really bothering me(I am the one known to kick a girls *** when i need to and tell girls off, im great in arguments with comebacks) Advice? >:| | | well its normal to feel jealous when girls flirt with your man trust me i know i do. but you should talk to the girl to back off and if she don't listen then you gotta do what you gotta do (kick her ***) that's what i would do. | My friend is a drunk in San Fransico how do I get him to stop drinking and sleeping with bar whores? My friend Ryan works a shitty job in a database center or something like that. He spends all his money on boose and drugs, and is in insane debt.
I keep telling him to stop being a slut and drinking all day.
He has a problem and I don't want to see him out on the streets when he crashes.
Recently he got dumped in the drunk tank... like last night. Yet he still doesn't see that as a reason to stop. He also passed out in the drunk tank.
Ryan also just turned 24. | | Ryan should run up an even larger amount of debt in unsecured loans, credit card bills, a car, a condo, and then declare bankruptcy. Then he should ride out his couple months of free rent while his condo gets foreclosed on him. He should take the resulting gigantic pile of cash and move to a trailer in Milpitas where he will get on welfare and grow pot. | How to find a cute girl to date? I'm in highschool right now and I've been looking for a girl that is cute and not into drugs and doesn't drink... Also, not a slut or *****... Just a cute, nice, and fun girl... What is the best way to find a girl like this now because pretty much all the girls I know are into drugs or someting elso screwed up like that... | | go to church |
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