Can a woman who has genital herpes transmit the disease through oral sex or kissing if she is outbreak free? If a woman is currently outbreak free, can she transmit genital herpes by oral sex or by kissing someone? What if she is having an outbreak when she does the above? Does it make any difference? And how likely is it for a man who is using a condom to get herpes from an infected woman if she is not having an outbreak? |
| It is almost impossible to get genital herpes from someone just from kissing. If you are using a condom, I would say that it's very unlikely for you to get it if she isn't having an outbreak. Keep in mind that it doesn't have anything to do with bodily fluids...if you know what I mean. It's about the lesions. Check it all out first...it's a good idea anyway right? These days, you're taking a big risk when you don't. Sores on your mouth (another kind of Herpes) if transmitted to someones genitals, can give them genital herpes...the same way millions of people spread herpes of the mouth by kissing everyday. It's everywhere. A mother can give give her guy herpes by kissing him...not genital herpes, just herpes. A huge percent of people have it and have no idea...they may not ever know. I would say just be careful. |
My GF is herpes simplex 1 & 2 free. i have both. can i give her the herpes virus while giving her oral sex? I was just recently diagnosed with herpes simplex 1 and 2. My partner has neither. Can i give her herpes simplex 2 by giving her unprotected oral sex when i have no open sores in or around my mouth even though i just recently contracted the disease less than 20 days ago? |
| Yes while it's less likely to be passed with out an out break, you can pass herpes even if you don't have any signs or symptoms of a break out orally or genitally. Even if you don't have signs of it you still have herpes in your body and you can shed it at any time. If you're not taking anti viral medication or at least using condoms when you don't have a break out, then you could give her herpes. If she doesn't know about your status you should tell her so she can make an informed decision. You can give her oral herpes on her genitals if you give her oral sex but again it's more likely to happen if you have a break on your mouth. |
Can herpes be transmitted from a cold sore through oral sex? My best friend told me that she is being tested for herpes after finding what she thought was a cut on her vagina. The Dr. stated it was not a cut and her professional opinion was it is herpes. She thinks she was exposed when her husband (who has not shown any signs of herpes in the past and was supposedly STD free) gave her oral sex when he had a fever blister. I have never heard of this before. Does this mean two individuals without herpes can give herpes to each other through oral sex with a cold sore ? And then you cannot ever cure herpes? That is so scary, I hope it is not true!!! Do you think her husband actually cheated on her and caught herpes? |
Yes.
There are two types of herpes virus. Herpes simplex virus 1 and Herpex simplex virus 2. Otherwise known as HSV 1 and HSV 2.
Typically, genital herpes is caused by HSV 2 and is transmitted by sexual contact. However, a significant portion of genital herpes is caused by HSV-1 (the cold sore kind). It gets there by, you guessed it, oral sex.
Also, of all the people infected with HSV 2, only 10% (on average) will ever have the typical blisters. They can still transmit the disease to others. So her husband could have transmitted the infection to her from a sexual contact that he had prior to their marriage.
In matters of love, anything can happen. I wouldn't jump to conclusions, however, about the fidelity of her husband. |
I'm loyal wid my husband but is it safe (hiv & any other virus free) to do oral sex ? he wants to put his d*i*k in mouth is it ok !!! |
Hi,
Oral sex is one of the type of sex. There is no harm in doing it the only care is to be taken that the sex organ should be clean. You can try 69 position for the same. |
Is it possible to get STD/HIV thru oral sex if both partner are free from these disease.? assuming that both of them are clean. yes or no? |
ha ha ha.....I like that! STD fairy...too funny.
No if everyone involved is healthy then you can't catch anything.
STD's aren't airborne for crying out loud, you don't get them from a healthy person and you don't get them from sitting in the same room as person who has one, that's why they're SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED. |
If couples or partners free from transmitting deseases(STD) can they engage in oral sex? What are the negatieve aspects of that?
Now adays most of the people are do have oral contact that I believe. This questions are only for educational purposes.
pls answer.
Thanks |
| Yes if you want to have oral sex and neither of you have anything then knock your self out. |
How much std risk is there if 3 clean std-free guys have sex? so if 3 guys get tested for stds and the results are negative, so they are all clean, no stds, how much risk is there of getting an std from them doing a threesome with each other?
This can have 2 parts, 1. how much risk if its only oral sex? and 2. how much risk if its also anal sex? thanx |
there is ~90% that you can get HPV virus!!!
because men can not be tested on HPV virus! only if they have visible genital wart outbreaks that are caused by HPV virus!
and becuase almost ~85% of all people have HPV virus or will get this virus - and because those guys are interested in threesome - there is very very very high possibility that one of them already have HPV virus!! |
Guys and gurlz feal free 2 answer in any way, oral sex qeustion? I aint no hoe n all dat but, i dnt get why sum ppl feel like its ok for a guy 2 give a woman head n its a kool, but if a gurl give a guy head, then she nasty, i dnt get may b sum of yall get help me out... |
| OK, but please don't bite it off of me. |
How can I get my husband to like our sex free marriage? He's been complaining that he isn't getting any sex. But every time I offer to sleep with him he wants oral sex and I refuse to degrade myself to preform it.
So how do I get him to accept that if he only wants oral sex that he must be prepared for a sex free life? |
Speaking from experience here, sexual issues in a marriage can mean the end of it. If he's expecting you to do something degrading (based on what I know of his personality), he's expecting it BECAUSE he knows that it's degrading to you. It's a control thing. And if he won't have sex with you otherwise, then he's REALLY going overboard with the control thing.
I tell you what, in both of my marriages, there were things I refused to do. If a man wants to have sex with me, it's going to be in a manner that I'm comfortable with, or not at all - and I expect the exact same in return...if he's not comfortable with something, we won't do it. If you can't find a common ground here, it's time for divorce papers.
I know that sounds harsh, but...I've lived it. There aren't really any easy answers. I suppose you could try counseling, but from what I've heard of him, I don't believe counseling will take. He has to stop being controlling, and he's not going to do that. |